Thursday, 31 March 2011
Wednesday, 30 March 2011 - MASTER's HOUSE
** 3rd day chaste **
At the moment i am on the train heading back to London. The last four days with Master seemed to have rushed by!
Heading back to London, it is a logical time to reflect on the last four days and what has happened; my expectations and how i feel “things” went. The first comment i must make at the outset was that i had an absolutely lovely time. In Master’s house i was made to feel welcome, i was comfortable and i was very, very happy.
The biggest hope or expectation i had from the visit was to experience what 24/7 slavery might be like. To clarify in my own mind whether i was indeed the slave i thought i was. On this point my expectations were clearly meet: i know i am a slave and i know i can make the slave commitment (and have made that commitment for the next three months at least). Throughout my time with Master i loved Master’s control, orders and direction.
By day 2 Master had my unquestioning trust and there was no doubt in my mind that i enjoyed following His orders and directions. Something that i found myself enjoying more than i expected too was Master’s control in public. Wearing Master’s collar in public was fantastic and i loved Master exercising control in public. Serving Master publicly was an enormous thrill for me and something i am keen to explore and be part of further.
Thinking about it all, i am actually finding it hard to put my feelings into words because quite simply, i am just really happy and really pleased with how it all went. At the end of the day, things were just fantastic and that is great!
Amongst the things i particularly enjoyed was sitting at Master’s feet while eating and talking, and i loved the way Master touched and fondled my body. Something that i am very quickly noticing about slavery as compared with being a sub is the exclusivity of the physical contact that slavery brings. As Master is the only one who touches me, Master’s touch and caresses count for a great deal to me and are especially significant. i am noticing that the merest touch of my body by Master generates an attempted erection on my part and last night when Master measured me with a measuring tape i was leaking pre-cum in buckets!
The other thing i noticed about myself was how much i conscientiously followed Master’s rules and regulations; even when Master was not home. For the whole time i was with Master in His house, i did not use the furniture at all. Even when i was on my own i complied with the Rules. For the times i was alone and working on my laptop i simply sat on the floor in Master’s upstairs bedroom (as it was warmer and i could see from the window when Master arrived home) and worked. Likewise, if Master was physically present i never went to the toilet without permission even waiting for my morning toilet visit until after breakfast.
One of the things i did find more challenging was not wearing shoes in the house, particularly when the floor was cold. At the same time, i enjoyed this because a slave’s life is not meant to be comfortable and i enjoyed the minor discomfort of this. In the same way, i enjoyed Master’s control over my daily appearance: no deodorant, no gels, no products, no moisturisers was a unique and different experience for me; but it meant i was more focused on Master than on myself. Furthermore, it ensured that i was totally in the right mindset for a slave as compared with my vanilla world.
Looking to the future i am excited and optimistic for how my relationship with Master can further grow.
In future meets two things i am looking forward to is Master exercising increasing control over me and to more (and more intense) BDSM. This first meet was important for both Master and i to meet each other properly and after four days with me i think Master knows a lot more about the type of person i am and i know a lot more about Master and His life.
i was very much aware that throughout the visit Master took pains to make me feel comfortable and relaxed and to reassure me that He had my best interests at heart. And i can assure Master that this was successful. As i said above, i trust Master completely and without hesitation. Know that our relationship has been firmly established and grounded in a knowledge of what we are each like as people, it is possible for Master to exercise greater control in areas where He wants to.
Furthermore, know that basic parameters have been established, i am realistic and prepared for future sessions. i am prepared for Master to be more assertive and to punish me for things which are not done correctly or as well as He wishes. And i am prepared for this now, because i have the solid foundation of knowing what kind of person Master is, and therefore i know He is fundamentally and an extremely kind, generous and decent person. Master is a gentleman.
Because the foundations have been so solidly laid, as a slave i prepared and excited for the future. Rather than moving too quickly, Master has comforted me by making me feel safe and secure in His home before we make things more intense and this is something i am pleased about.
As for bondage, i have no doubt this will increase in future visits when time is not an issue. i simply can not wait for Master to push and expand my perceived limits in this area. One of the things i both loved and hated was that Master only allowed me to cum once on the Sunday night. i loved it because Master is controlling me and i always thought it would be great to experience a meet without cumming and only being able to focus on Master’s pleasure. i hate it though because serving Master makes me feel so horny and i know i now have to wait at least 8 days before i even have the possibility of cumming again! A subtle hint to Master here … one of my other fantasies, along with a prostate milking, is to be milked until a dry or empty orgasm if possible …
One of the things i am particularly happy about is that i believe Master and i have excellent communication flow. In my opinion, Master communicates very well and to me it is readily apparent from his language and his body and facial expressions what His mood is. To me, Master is clear and unambiguous in what He wants and expects and i am very happy with that. For my end of the bargain, i believe i communicate my thoughts, concerns, desires etc well and that Master is able to be fully aware of what i think.
Sitting in the train, wearing Master’s vanilla collar, back in chastity, i am excited about what the next three months will bring. i firmly believe i will come out of the next three months not only as a better, more devoted and dedicated slave; but a richer and more fulsome person.
Already i am very, very fond of Master. i am optimistic and confident about our relationship, because i enjoy Master’s company and relish spending time with him. An important aspect for any Master-slave relationship to work. I simply love serving Master in every aspect and i loved being able to serve him sexually. Serving Master sexually was perhaps the highlight of my visit and as stated in yesterday’s post; i love Master’s cock!
The next three months are going to be fantastic. i can’t wait to visit Master again – i’m already counting down the next eight nights until i’m back at Master’s feet!
Tuesday, 29 March 2011 - MASTER's HOUSE
Monday, 28 March 2011 - MASTER's HOUSE
Sunday, 27 March 2011 - MASTER's HOUSE
** 2nd cum for Master **
i am sitting on the train at the moment on my way to meet Master. Right now i am feeling rather excited but also quite nervous. My time is divided between thinking about what is to come; the beautiful English countryside rushing past the window and watching DVDs.
At Euston changing into the clothes Master had brought for me for was a surreal and exciting experience. Not surprisingly i felt quite self-conscious and was convinced everyone was starting at me, but in reality i was perhaps remarkably indistinguishable in the crowd. Putting on the clothes, checking my bag at left luggage and only carrying things Master wanted me to take made the whole experience seem very real.
My feelings right now are quite hard to put into writing: a mixture of nervousness, excitement and optimism. More than anything i am keen for this to go well. For so long now i have been searching for a Master to serve and the knowledge that it is only a matter of hours away is quite unusual. i am keen to impress my Master and to serve him without hesitation and without reservation.
For perhaps the first time i am not really sure what to write. Staring at my screen, i feel unable to come up with proper words to describe my emotions. The best way i can describe my attitude at the moment is one of just letting go and serving Master and enjoying this experience for all it is meant to be.
For such a long time i have waited and wanted for this experience; now it is here and no i am more nervous than anything i just keep telling myself to breath deeply; relax; trust in Master and just “go with it”.
Above all else though, i simply can’t wait to meet Master and begin!
From this point forward my post is being written after i met with Master. i am in the process of coming down from a post-cum high and my cock is still tingling from the estim as i write this part of the blog!
The initial meeting with Master went well: the collaring at the train station also happened so fast and before i knew it we were on the way to Master’s house. The drive to Master’s house was rather quiet. In situations where i am feeling either nervous or unsure of myself; i have two different types of reactions. In a professional setting, the dominant side of my personality tends to take charge and i either talk a lot and/or attempt to take charge. My other reaction, which sometimes occurs in a professional situation when i am surrounded by a number of high-ranking people, is to become shy and introverted.
In bondage situations i usually tend to become quite shy and tend not to talk. i was a little bit worried i was initially too quiet; but contented myself with Master’s early advice that i could speak when spoken too.
Shortly after we arrived at Master’s house, i began to relax completely and i felt quite comfortable and at home. i think (from my perspective at least) that once i began to relax my normal personality began to emerge!
The afternoon was spent getting to know Master’s house and Master’s lifestyle and i also helped Master finish constructing a wooden horse. i felt very comfortable in Master’s house and had no trouble with the Rules. The only time i felt rather self-conscious was going to the toilet and passing wind and defecating with the door open, but i think that in time even this will pass.
i felt that Master went out of His way to make me feel comfortable, relaxed and reassured in both His presence and His house and i am extremely grateful for this. The overall effect of this was that by the time we went out for dinner, i felt quite relaxed about wearing the more visible padlocked collar and addressing Master as “Sir”. i took the approach of ignoring the few people around us and focusing solely on Master.
Eating out with Master was great! All my life i have always enjoyed surprises (they appeal to my personality) and so i quite enjoyed having Master make all the decisions in the restaurant. It felt great to not even have to bother to pick up the menu. i think it’s the first time in my adult life i have ever gone out to a restaurant and not known anything about the menu, the available options or even the cost of an item!
Back at Master’s house, i did some chores for Master and helped Master with some research while Master concentrated on His work. My first bondage session with Master was fantastic and it was great to try out the new wooden horse Master had created.
In my opinion, only two things played on my mind during the session. Firstly, i sometimes worry that i talk too much during BDSM sessions. This seems to be a historical evolutionary feature for me: when i was much younger and only starting out with my early BDSM experiences (18 to 20 or so) a lot of Master’s commented that I was too “starfish” like and did not really communicate how i was feeling. i think sometimes i know do the opposite and comment on things too much; but i think it is better to over-communicate rather than under-communicate.
The other thing that played on my mind was cumming. Master said to me “Do you want to cum?” The honest answer to that question was “yes”, but i felt that want i wanted was irrelevant. My rather feeble response to Master “only if you want to cum” (or that was my intention) at least. Eventually i orgasmed when Master told me to cum.
For me, a slave has no say over whether he cums or not, so i wanted to say to Master “yes, i want to cum but only if you want me to cum” if you don’t want me to cum, i don’t want to cum then!
Being edged by Master was a fabulous experience because since i have been in chastity, the only hand that i have felt touch my cock (except from my own hands when cleaning and putting the device on) are Master’s hands. That was quite a surreal experience and made the impact of Master’s touch so much more powerful.
The other element i liked about the experience of cumming with Master was that it did not extend the session. Not unsurprisingly given my self-identification as a slave, i like long BDSM sessions. Previously i have always been reluctant to cum for fear that it will end the session (which it usually does). Given i am here with Master for at least another three days, there is no fear of an orgasm ending “the session” in this situation!
All in all a fantastic day and a wonderful start to this new chapter in my life as a slave. i am not particularly sure what my expectations were to begin with, but i do feel as if my expectations have been exceeded!